I'm a San Francisco native who didn't get into Phish till the end of high school (1997-1998), so outside of Outside Lands, I've never seen a *real* Phish show in my home town (let alone one on my birthday, 8/19!). All of the talk of a Dead member sitting in is awesome-- for a while I thought it was totally normal. My first two shows were 9/17/99 (Phil) and 10/6/00 (Bobby, and a Spock's Brain I didn't appreciate). So here's my list for BGCA for what it's worth:

1) Spock's Brain
2) Shakedown Street or Help > Slip > Franklin's a la 4/16/99
3) Tube w/ Tube Jam
4) A nice long, exploratory Waves
5) No ripcords if any jams start to drift into exploratory territory